One of my nonreligious friends asked me a question this past week to answer on my YouTube channel. I originally planned on recording a video answer and publishing this post, but I have unexpectedly fallen ill this week (as I type this I have about a hundred degree fever). So for now, I will only be publishing this as written content, my apologies to everyone who enjoys my videos and was looking forward to this one.
Here is the question:
“If a person lives a great life, gives love to his friends, family and random strangers. If he upholds his beliefs and lives by example…
.. but he isn’t religious,
Does he get into heaven?”
There are so many things I want to say in response to this but first I’d like to say how grieved I am that Christianity is seen as a set of rules and regulations by the general population. I say this because of my background in legalism, I know that the Church has failed so many with this and I feel like this question shows that.
To begin answering this question, I must unpack a few things. First, what do we mean when we talk about heaven?
When I was growing up, I was led to believe that heaven was a super special place where everyone was floating around on clouds with angel wings. There was no pain or suffering there. I think the popular consensus of heaven is that it is the nice place where nice people go in the afterlife. This is in direct contrast to the scary place known as Hell, Sheol, Hades, Tartarus, or whatever you would like to call the place where bad people go.
This view of heaven and hell is actually not biblically accurate. Heaven is a place where a believer’s soul goes when they are separated from their body to be with the Lord when they die (2 Corinthians 5:6-9). Heaven is not the end all be all for a follower of Christ however. We believe that heaven is merely a stopping point as we await the resurrection of our physical bodies (made possible by Jesus’ death and resurrection). After our physical bodies are resurrected, we believe that we will dwell in a New Heaven and a New Earth, ruled by Jesus Christ as King (1 Corinthians 15:51-53, John 5:29).
With this understanding in place, we can return to the question of what type of person partakes in this sort of eternal existence.
The answer to this is simple and makes perfect sense when you understand the underlying reality that the afterlife is spent either in communion with Christ (as expressed above) or separated from Him. People who have sworn allegiance to Christ in life (as codified in Baptism and expressed by faith) will abide with Him and serve Him. People who have rejected Christ and His rule as Lord of Creation will be refused admittance on those grounds.
It may seem a bit exclusionary, but that is, in some ways, the point. What King would want people in His Kingdom who do not care about Him or His sacrifice, much less believe in His existence?
Digging in further, the question of whether “goodness” alone can get you into heaven can be answered this way:
The world’s definition of good is largely subjective. I mean really, what counts as a good person? All have lied, stolen, lusted, hated, etc, often by their own admission. In addition to that, the bible says point-blank that no one is “good” (in themselves). Romans 3:10a NIV tells us,
“ As it is written:
‘There is no one righteous, not even one….'”
Scripture again reiterates that no one is good and that all have fallen short in Romans 2:22-24 NIV:
“This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”
Again, perpetual existence in resurrected paradise is not dependent upon us or our ability to be good because we are imperfect, even if we try to be “good.”
Scripture tells us Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life:
“Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'” John 14:6 NIV
I particularly like how Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV explains things:
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
I feel like this sums it up well: We cannot by our own reason or strength save ourselves, Salvation is a priceless gift from God. At the same time, good works are part of the Christian life because God prepares us to do them. Believing that Christ has done everything on our behalf, and that we had to be saved by Him precisely because our good works are not sufficient, is the crux of the Gospel itself.
This video, though lengthy, is really great on explaining how the Gospel actually works!
It is true that Christians have “rules” on living our lives because there are certain things God asks of us. Our dedication and obedience to Jesus is out of thankfulness, genuine authenticity. and appreciation for what He sacrificed for us.
As someone who grew up Christian, I see other generational Christians like myself lacking this enthusiastic part of our faith because we grew up with obligatory rules rather than the Gospel. It is going through the motions rather than really having an authentic relationship with our Creator, and I don’t mean the Jesus is my boyfriend type (that is a post for another day).
To answer the question: Good works or being good won’t buy a ticket to heaven because being saved has nothing to do with what we do and everything to do with what Jesus has done. He alone is unblemished and stands before God on our behalf as an intercessor. Being found by God “in Him,” as Scripture puts it, is the only way to spend eternity in “heaven” (i.e. as a resurrected citizen of His Kingdom) with Him.
I’ve been asked to do live devotionals in a Facebook group called Black Coffee Prayer Room! If you’d like to join us in the group, you can request with this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/304061590067552/
This specific devotional is on Love and War.
In my time of blogging, since August 2015, I’ve said a lot of things. After being reminded of how fragile life really is twice recently, it made me evaluate what is really important to me and look back on my content to see if I was saying what I really wanted to, and I wasn’t. In an entire year and eight months, out of three hundred posts, I’ve had ample opportunity to talk, but I could not find one in which I said exactly what I wanted to say and as much as I wanted to say. Because I was (and am) scared of the consequences. The domain change from my previous website was supposed to help me with that, but my anxiety from the previously anti-Christian crowd I ran in while pregnant still runs high.
I had friends then who believed I was on “their side” with many issues, but then later found out I was Christian. It was not a good situation and it still handicaps me mentally now to have dealt with such vehement anger and rage from people I had done nothing to. The only thing that had changed was that they found out I was Christian.
I have a lot of friends now who view me as a reasonable, maybe even intelligent person. But after this, they might not. And I have a lot of people who don’t like me (around here we call them fans, because they hate you but they can’t take their eyes off your Facebook timeline) think that I am a lot of things that I am not, and after this, they might not.
This video might change the relationships I am in, for better and for worse, but I’m done waiting and twiddling my thumbs in search of the right time and the perfect words. What people think of me is not important, not by a long shot. What is important is what I need to tell you, and it can’t wait.
I don’t care if you love me or hate me, if you read and watch everything I post or this is your first time. No matter who you are, I want you to see this.
My apologies in advance, there is a lot of crying.
I hear you ask me question after question, but I know what you really want from me.* You want the truth? Here it is.
The truth is, I hate how you treat yourself. Let’s be honest here, you are an ass to yourself. You think you are worth nothing because of your mistakes, but you think it is hopeless because you think that making them means you’ll never be whole. You think they are all part of your legacy of stories and pain.
You think you deserved it, everything that has ever hurt you. You think pain is your punishment and without it, you are lost. So much so that when you start to feel lost, you inflict it on yourself as though it is a long-lost friend and you’ve missed it.Continue Reading